My name is Courtney. I’m a 30 year old woman living in Northern Virginia. I have two boys- Mason and Myles, who are 16 months apart (and before you ask, no we didn’t plan it this way, but I think there are a lot of positives to a close age gap and we can get more into that later). I’m currently expecting my third boy and will have three under three for a few months (wish me luck)! I’ve been married for 3 years, although my husband and I have been together since our senior year of college at UVa back in 2011. In 2018, I left my day job as a writer/editor in government communications (but please excuse any grammar mishaps and typos here) to be a stay at home mom. I also sell 90s vintage and vintage-inspired clothes with my hubby by night- check out our etsy page here. I’m starting this blog as a way to address a lot of issues surrounding motherhood that are important to me.
The first is that millennial motherhood comes with its challenges. We live in an age where women are told to delay motherhood in favor of their careers and instagram worthy vacations (and there is nothing wrong with that) but as someone who still wants the instagram worthy vacations and will be resuming my career eventually, I’m juggling how to have it all without going off the deep end, and want to share stories, tips, and resources (and get all of those things from you guys as well). When I announced my first pregnancy shortly after my wedding, a lot of people told me I was joining the motherhood club too early, that my husband and I would be missing out on valuable time as just the two of us. But I think we both can say that our lives have felt fuller since our children arrived, and I feel like I’ve grown so much as a person as a result of having to care about someone more than myself.
I got similar negative reactions when I announced my second pregnancy. So many people, even strangers, said two under two would drive me and my husband crazy. But we’re all surviving and doing just fine so far. And while the newborn stage (and all of the hormone changes and sleep deprivation that come along with it) made me feel isolated the first time, I actually felt more connected to my husband the second time. The point is motherhood doesn’t have to have a bad rep as a millennial. It’s hard work but it’s seriously amazing! And if you end up having kids close in age like I did, don’t worry you can do it! But because motherhood in general is such hard work (some days it takes all of you and then some) connecting with and supporting other mothers is key to our survival. So is self-care, so I’ll be talking about that a lot.
I also just want to share some tips and products that I think are helpful as I discover them. There will be a lot of content for moms in general, but some just for moms of boys (because I think we get the short end of the stick when it comes to some of the fun stuff like baby clothes). This isn’t my first attempt at blogging- as some of you may know I had a very brief stint in law school, which led to my earlier blog Law Books and Lipstick (and a lot of student loans). I’ve also been a contributing blogger on The Real Chic Life (run by my Mom, who also has an amazing instagram). I’d love your comments, questions, and suggestions, feel free to contact me.